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Contributions from Caryn Franklin, Jane Galpin, Melissa Dick and Kathryn Byrne.

November

Dear Caryn,
I've read that evening gloves are back in style for ultra formal events. I have a beautiful Audrey Hepburn type black formal dress and I would love to wear opera length gloves. Exactly what is the etiquette for wearing gloves, do you take them off to eat, etc., can you wear them all evening?
Thank You

Kelly

Dear Kelly,
Strictly speaking you should remove evening gloves before you eat. You may remove the right one during cocktails for ease of eating hors d' oeuvres and beverages, otherwise it is perfectly acceptable to keep gloves on all evening, why ruin the look!

For affordable and elegant evening gloves go to John Lewis, they have a brilliant selection of colours, lengths and fabrics to choose from.

 

I just got a great pair of knee high chocolate brown boots and want to know how to wear them with jeans. I once saw a picture where a girl was wearing jeans with knee high boots and she cuffed the jeans with a very exaggerated cuff about 10-12 inches long, but can not find the picture again. Do you have any ideas?
Nicole

Dear Nicole,
It sound like the lady in the picture will have turned up a pair of cropped jeans herself, and possibly loosley sewn the hem into place.

Alternatively; for a sleeker look, invest in a pair of drainpipe or straight leg jeans, Fornariner (currently available at House of Fraser) have some great ones. Cheaper versions can be found at H&M and Topshop. Simply wear your jeans tucked into your boots for one of the best looks this winter.

 

Hello Caryn,
I am looking for a special dress for a Christmas party this year and I was wondering if you know where I might find one or if you have seen one? I am 5 foot 9 inches in height and size 12-14 and I looking for a knee length or just above dress that would flatter a curvey figure.
I would be grateful if you could help me out,
Thanks
Rhonda

Dear Rhonda,
I find one of the best places on the high street for party dresses is Monsoon, they have a lovely cut and just the right amount of sparkle to add glitz and glamour to any special occasion. Oasis, Warehouse and Kookai also traditionally come up trumps for their Christmas collections and are definitely worth a look. Go to our howtolookgood directory for links to their websites and stores nearest to you.

 

Hi i am looking for a pair of thigh high boots similar to the ones Victoria Beckham/Alex Curran have been wearing! do you know of any high street shops stocking similar ones?
thanks

Hi,
The boots you have seen are by designer Stella McCartney, I haven't seen any equivalents on the high street yet, however, Office do have some black point over the knee boots, they are fairly loose over the knee as opposed to the tight fitting lace detail on Stella McCartney's, although I think they are good alternative.

Go to our howtolookgood shopping channel for a direct link to the Office website.

 

Hi, please help me soon as this ball I am attending is at the end of the month. I have purchased a Flapper dress which has a cream coloured underslip and cream ruffles at the bottom. The upper part is a white cotton lace. I am not sure what to put with it. I would like to wear a headband but can't seem to find one that works with the softness of the dress or the colour. Suggestions on shoe colours would be great too. In other words, I want to put a great outfit together but can't seem to get my thoughts around the right acessories.

Please help!
Thank you,

Sandi

Dear Sandi,
Some cream/white tights with round toed heels or t-bar style shoes in either gold, bronze or silver would look great with your lace flapper dress. Most of the high street stores should have something, New Look have actually got some glitter round toed heels in blue, silver or gold which would look great. For head bands look in TopShop or Claire's Accessories, or better still, nip to your local haberdashery and get some ribbon to make your own, use some kirby grips to keep in place and you can get a head band in any colour you like.

 

Dear Caryn,
My boyfriend wants me to wear seamed stockings at a dinner I am attending with him. I would be happy to do this (I frequently wear ordinary stockings) but am worried that as they are presently not in fashion, they will appear tarty. If I do wear them, should I go for the ordinary seamed item or the ones with the reinforced heel?

Also, do you have any tips for keeping evening dress spaghetti straps on my somewhat sloping shoulders. I am fairly large busted and cannot go completely strapless.

Many thanks,
Heather

Dear Heather,
Seamed stockings are a style classic and will always look chic, either option you mentioned would be fine.
As for spaghetti straps, if they are slipping off your shoulders have them shortened slightly. This is extremely easy to do yourself, get a friend to pin them at the back where they already join your dress and just sew them securely into place.

 

Caryn,
Hi. I have a cream corduroy pencil skirt and don't know the color or style of shoes to wear with it. Do you have any suggestions.

Thank you
Bonnie

Dear Bonnie,
Some round toed flat pumps would look great with your pencil skirt, TopShop, Faith and Offica all have good ones. French Sole are slightly more expensive but have some gorgeous patent and patterened styles.

For direct links to all the above go to the Shopping Mall on my howtolookgood site.

 

Hi
I want to buy a pair of long winter boots which I can wear with my jeans tucked in. But I have big calf muscles and can not find any that fit. I have heard there is a shop or website that specialises in boots for girls like me - do you know it?

Thanks in advance.
Marianne.

Dear Marianne
A fab mail order company called Duo will be able to help you with this. Specialising in calf fitting boots they offer over 20 different widths in sizes 2 to 10 with loads of great designs to choose from, plus they are the same price as many high street sold boots with prices starting from £90.

Go to the Shopping Mall on my howtolookgoodwebsite for a direct link to Duo.

 

hi i'm looking for some jeans to fit a pear shape figure. I want a really nice pair of jeans to wear out with a glamorous top. I'm 5" 4' a size 10 on top and a 12 on the bottom. Can you recommend any brands of jeans that suit the larger bottom!

Hi,
Both Gap and TopShop are great for pear shaped ladies and should be able to help you out. Jeans can be nightmare so a good tip is to ear mark a full day to spend trying on lots of different pairs, TopShop for example have tons of different styles to choose from, also once you find a style that fits well buy a few of pairs in different shades just in case the shop discontinues the line.

Do let me know how you get on, its always great to get feed back.

Happy shopping!

 

I have a terrible time finding pants that fit my very thin thighs (which I can't do anything about) that don't cut into my hips. Are there any pants anywhere that are thin in the thigh area and then expand outward to fit on the hips?
Jessica

Dear Jessica,
Unfortunately I don't. The only thing I can recommend is steering away from the tight pant look and try wearing a wide leg a la Jennifer Aniston and Kate Beckinsale. This style of pant looks great in linen and cotton and creates a very flattering silhouette, especially if your legs are on the thinner side. The only other alternative is to buy pants with a slight amount of lycra (and therefore stretch) in the fabric.

I do hope this helps Jessica.

 

Hi Caryn
Please can you tell me where to find shoes or boots for a fashion conscious teenager with wide feet around the EE/EEE depending on the fit of the shoe. Everything I have found so far is too old fashioned.

many thanks
Juliana

Dear Victoria,
The first place I'd like to recommend is a fantastic British website called Plus in Boots who specialise in sourcing gorgeous wide fitting boots and shoes at good prices. They have a really comprehensive sizing chart to ensure you choose the right fitting shoe for you and are fast becoming a god send for wide fitting women.

For shoes in particular; a great place to try is a semi bespoke company called Selve. They digitally measure your foot -which would involve an initial trip to their shoe lounge in central London, however this will ensure you have a perfect fit - they then make a shoe to your specifications in style, fabric and colour. They keep your details on their data base so you can make future orders without even leaving the comfort of your own home. Prices start from around £100, the quality is great and you have the freedom to get a personally individualised pair of shoes every time you buy!
Have a look at the Shopping Mall on my howtolookgood site for more details on Plus in Boots and Selve and how to contact them.

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